Infidelity: Exploding the Myths - Paperback

by Julia Hartley Moore (Author)

It seems that almost every week we hear about infidelity particularly when it occurs in the lives of the rich and famous: Tiger Woods and Elin Nordegren; Sandra Bullock and Jesse James; Bill and Hillary Clinton; Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart. But the truth is that with every relationship and every marriage comes the possibility of infidelity. It doesn't matter how rich, beautiful, powerful, successful or intelligent you are, infidelity doesn't discriminate. It occurs in marriages and relationships that seem almost perfect to the outsider. As a private investigator specializing in infidelity, Julia Hartley Moore has seen it all, and has helped thousands of women and men in the grips of this destructive force. She has had a uniquely intimate view of how to recognize and deal with a partner who cheats. Julia explodes the myths (and there are many) of why people cheat and explains how to deal with it if it happens to you or someone you care about. She relates dozens of real-life examples from her professional work. While it is not something you would wish on anyone, in many cases it is possible to move on and rebuild your relationship. As well as a professional interest in the subject, Julia has experienced infidelity firsthand. She was in her teens, and the mother of three children, when she experienced infidelity for the first time. Four marriages later - and fifteen years after setting up her own international private investigation company - she is in an ideal position to offer both personal and objective insights into a subject that fascinates everyone but also devastates those it touches.

Author Biography

Julia Hartley Moore is a high profile, successful international private investigator with specialist expertise in uncovering infidelity. Her personal life story makes for great reading. A dyslexic who left school at age 14 and a victim of date rape at 15, Julia was forced to marry her assailant in order to keep the child who was born as a result of the incident. At 16 she was the mother of 3 children under a year old, and by 20 Julia was divorced and struggling to raise her young family on her own. But this Mom was different; she knew how to turn her life around and prove all her doubters wrong. And that's what Julia has done all her life: from working for Mohammed Al Fayed at Harrods of London, to divorce, heartbreak and now true love with her fourth husband. The woman who once struggled to read and write is now a best-selling author and media personality. She founded Arbeth & Co Limited over two decades ago and since then it has grown to become a leading private investigation company carrying out work all around the world. When Julia established Arbeth & Co, she was the first woman to own a private investigation company in New Zealand in an industry which was then totally dominated by male ex-police officers. With no formal Police background, Julia caused a major stir in the private investigation industry. While Julia's company specializes in investigating infidelity, it also offers a wide range of unique services such as locating blood parents and missing person, GPS vehicle tracking, computer forensics, mobile phone forensics, covert camera surveillance and handwriting analysis. Her investigation agency works internationally in the fields of private, family court, criminal and commercial investigations. Julia is an internationally regarded expert in relationships, infidelity and human nature. She is the international best-selling author whose books have been translated and sold around the world. She is regularly called upon to act as a spokesperson on high profile infidelity cases and has appeared as a commentator on television, radio and in print articles. She is also a motivational speaker. Julia and her husband Steve currently live in a seaside cottage with their three dogs in New Zealand. http: //www.juliahartleymoore.com/