If Only: Could have Changed the Outcome - Paperback

by Debi Schelhaas (Author)

This book took me nearly 20 years to write. This is my life story and how it's been a series of challenges and struggles just to survive the actions and abuse inflicted by my own family. The scars left behind each time always left me dwelling on if only, if only things would or could have been done differently to avoid the nightmares and how it has shaped my life. Through my journey you will also read how I found answers to questions about the driving force behind my parents but also how I uncovered hidden family secrets that have been kept in the shadows for years.
- Uncover the truth behind generations of abuse and tragedy in my family
- See how I was finally able to heal from past traumas and move forward
- Find strength and resilience in your own story that help us finally heal
- Learn how I was able to break the cycle of abuse and create a better future for myself
- An honest and raw account of my personal journey
- Insight into the effects of intergenerational trauma
- The importance of forgiveness and letting go of resentment